Getting to know someone dating
Don't feel like by becoming more like this new girlfriend, you'll give yourself an edge.
Source: Okay, on one hand, there is a chance that this new relationship won't work out for very long.
That said, if it looks like they'll be together for a while, you may want to start trying to get over your crush so you don't get too hung up on him and can hopefully find another awesome (and available) crush!
In case you weren’t familiar, borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health problem.
You can give yourself a little time to see if his new situation lasts.
It’s almost as if there’s someone yelling at us to do it until we finally give in. We may get incredibly down and have awful thoughts, such as suicide. No matter how many people we are surrounded with, it can get incredibly lonely. But please remember this doesn’t mean we don’t appreciate you or know you’re there for us. We’re sorry for every time we may have outbursts or get upset with you. It’s so hard to explain, it just feels like when we’re in a rage, we’re not ourselves.
It can be scary, and we desperately need your support. Please know we don’t mean it and we feel tremendous amounts of guilt for doing it. It’s as if something horrible has taken over our personality and, until we’re calm, the real us doesn’t come. The guilt we feel afterwards and the longing for your forgiveness is the worst thing about it. We’re sorry in advance for waking you up for a hug during the night. For all the times our outbursts take over, the paranoia sets in or the countless times we feel we’re drowning in our own emptiness, we’re sorry. But we will love you more than you’ll ever know: For supporting us, for loving us and for staying.
When someone has it, their attitudes, beliefs and behaviour can cause longstanding problems in their (and your) life.
It can be incredibly scary and incredibly daunting at the same time.