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I don’t know, maybe some girls might think of that as a compliment but personally, I would have preferred a simple message like, “Hey, would you like to talk?

I saw that some of your interests were the same as mine,” or something along those lines.

Every once in a while, I like to revisit the subject of lazy communication because I hear and read about so many people making excuses for why they’re reliant on texting (or emailing/instant messenger/Facebook) instead of picking up the phone and having face-to-face interaction.

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If you’re the one that’s being managed by text, you’re getting sold on words while building a sandcastle in the sky. It actually often takes more time to write a text than it does to make a phone call. If they refuse to call, don’t try to waste your time teaching them – they haven’t just come out of the womb into 2011.

I’ve often found myself rereading, shortening etc and that’s just with friends! Ever been stuck in a long drawn out ping pong of texts/emails/IM? A phone call would have done and dusted the conversation in minutes! They’re saying “I don’t have time to call you for even one minute but I have time to tap out some piddling text”. Some will chance their arm because they’re used to getting away with it in other relationships – they don’t with you – You’re not that woman or that guy which means they have to step or, or ship the hell out.

Romantic relationships involve analysing their texts and analysing and rewriting your own responses. Texting is too ambiguous, non committal, and yes, sometimes a tad juvenile. It’s up to you to uphold your standards and not pander to standards that they’re used to from others who may have less.

Now while the telephone has undergone many transformations since it was originally invented in 1876 and we no longer have to go through a convoluted operator process or use a rotary dial (well unless you have one of those very cool ‘retro’ phones) plus you can ‘carry’ them with you wherever you go, in essence, the telephone is still the telephone.

After face-to-face communication, it’s still a great and next best form of connected contact with another person.

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